What do we mean by a Happy Couple?
The one who reach to the solution to any conflict ASAP with a win-win approach. And the one who standing as a partner for lifetime.
We can see many of the couple are facing this issue now. People are too dependent on each other from emotional aspects. You both are two different individuals who have their own way to look and deal with any given situation. Expecting your other half to behave same way like you can lead towards conflicts in long run.
Many times people try their best to fit into their partner's shoes but get bored and irritated after a point. Then you see that other partner is becoming clingy or nagging for things.
Why does it happen?
Its all cz people tend to get influence by the things happening around and wana have a partner just cz their friend has one. While these relations doesn't go for long run most of the time. Still you create that emotional space permanently which makes u to be with someone every time.
Now when you have a permanent space created for certain expectations, you cannot handle if you partner couldn't meet ur expectations for a limited time. Which leads to over thinking and mainly negative thoughts and insecurity in your mind and makes ur partner feel cheese off u..
Thats why if you wana lead the life as happy couple you should first learn to stay as a TRUE SINGLE...
What does it mean?
Find out ur spark.. which can be strongest then any bond around. Learn to spend and love ME TIME without feeling petty on urself. let other individual also have that personal space and respect for the same. Being single can help you in boosting your self esteem and confidence to live ur life on ur own. it also help u to enjoy ur relationship when you fall into as u will never get bored of each other (cz you are not so much available to anyone).
Just a thought and analytics on the situation seen around. It may differ in certain exceptional cases..
Cheers,
Kalpana Sharma
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